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You may recognise this Daddy-Pup duo from out and about on the fetish scene, their kink friendly, sex education YouTube channel – Watts The Safeword or their other online “sexploits”. It’s fair to say these guys are fetish connoisseurs. We caught up with them in the Mr S Leather studio in San Francisco to discuss their relationship and all things BDSM.

Sandy Pianim with mrKristofer and PupAmp
Sandy Pianim with mrKristofer and PupAmp | Photo: Recon

The conversation starts at the beginning. “The pup came along at a time in my life when I was in transition of a relationship, and he taught me all about puppies. He’s been the best companion I’ve had ever since…” shares mrKristofer, when talking about how they met almost five years ago.

PupAmp goes on to explain that they met at IML and knew of mrKristofer’s online bondage work beforehand. mrKristofer remembers the moment, “I was tying up boys for demos and he was skulking around hoping to get tied up. He had such a sexy ass I was like… Do you want to get tied up?!”

In the beginning their Daddy-Pup relationship was very open and all about casual play. They didn’t refer to themselves as dating or boyfriends, it was just about affection and taking care of one another. “There was definitely some love involved there.” PupAmp says, describing how they started. mrKristofer emphasises that there was a lot of love, but he was a little standoffish. “I told him that I wasn’t ready for another relationship and he said, ‘That’s ok, I’m just a puppy. I’m here to make you happy.’ I thought, now that I can do!”

Over time they evolved into what they are today. They’ve had poly family relationships where other guys have come in and out. They’ve even had relationships independent of each other but, mrKristofer describes PupAmp as his rock, stating “Nobody argues with the puppy, puppy is always right.”

Conducting an open relationship of any kind can be tricky but PupAmp gives this piece of advice. “FOMO exists, there’s always going to be jealously here and there. It’s a matter of being really good at communicating. I think kinksters statistically are better at doing [this], and just being able say how something makes you feel and being able to work past that. We’re not built for monogamy.”

With that in mind, we were intrigued to find how and what they used Recon for. Both are very particular when viewing member profiles, using what they find there to make informed decisions about whether to engage. “I tend to look at a person’s pictures first and foremost” says PupAmp, “Their descriptions, [then] if they have friends or people you can reference.” For him, all of this information comes together to get a sense of how credible a player they are. mrKristofer agrees with this tactic but adds “…It is where I get most of the people I play with.”

A word of warning before you hit the cruise button on mrKristofer’s profile, though: have variety in your photos, and if they feature any bondage, make sure it’s not sloppy. Asked for a bad example he states “[A] single granny knot to a chair at the wrong pressure points. You can determine someone’s skill level.” Then explaining why good bondage matters, “BDSM is such a special experience. It’s a power control thing. That’s what I find sexy, tying someone down or being tied down. You are giving the other person complete control to do anything.”

mrKristofer and PupAmp from Watts the Safeword
mrKristofer and PupAmp from Watts the Safeword | Photo: Recon

PupAmp recalls how he learned bondage through watching kinky porn. His younger self always wished there was some sort of fetish figure that he could look up to for advice and guidance. Being a child of the internet, he wanted to see gay, kinky, sex positive content creators. The lack of this type of content inspired him and friend, Bolt to create their own YouTube channel, Watts the Safeword – which has found huge success.

When Bolt moved to Seattle, mrKristofer stepping up to co-host Watts the Safeword and to share his unique take on fetish. They have guests and viewers reach out to them, picking topics for them to discuss in their videos. They’ve effectively created the supportive online community that a young PupAmp always craved. Their ability to make educational fetish content for all – regardless of gender and sexuality – empowers viewers and provides them with the tools to go forth and explore their own kinks. The couple are doing their bit to make the scene as visible as possible, which can only further the fetish community as a whole.

When asked what we can all do to strengthen the community, mrKristofer smiles “Having a puppy has taught me to be more accepting of other people’s kinks. I come from an older background where it’s ‘This is the way you do leather and anything outside of how we learned to do leather is wrong.’ We need to be more accepting that everyone has different kinks and fetishes. It’s grown exponentially over the last few years and we have to accept all of it.”

We couldn’t agree more.

Originally published in Recon Issue_01. Available in print and digitally via

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Time to play with Toyfucked87

“I’m a creative, imaginative person, so I try to implement something new in each of my videos.”




I caught up with Toyfucked87 to talk about underwear, fantasies, and life on JustFor.Fans.

What led you to start exploring a career in porn?

I originally started recording myself in 2016, just because it turned me on. Then I went on to various gay roulette cam sites. Whereas most guys would just be jacking off on the roulette sites with only their dick showing, I liked to shock people by being fully decked out in leather gear, or by fucking myself with a dildo with my face showing.

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Toyfucked87 showing one of his dildos | Photo: Toyfucked87

Some of the cam sites let you see how many viewers you have compared to other people. I would reliably get to number one on those sites, just by doing the stuff I liked to do – that’s when I started to realise that maybe I had something unique to offer.

Who are some of your porn heroes or inspirations?

I consider directors to be the heart of any production. You can have the hottest guys imaginable in your video, but if there’s no direction or passion or hook, it often just falls flat. Bruce Cam is probably my favourite porn director of all time. The Fallen Angel series is a masterpiece.

Joe Gage is another one.  Yes, I’m a big Titan guy – although, in my opinion, their recent productions are lazy, uninspired, and barely there. If you haven’t seen Mens Room: Bakersfield Station then you need to stop reading this and go do that.

Chi Chi LaRue is another one. I prefer his older movies – Hazed will always be one of my go-tos.

As for porn stars that really get me going, Damien Crosse is my pig-idol, Dred Scott, Brock Masters, Spencer Whitman – particularly his thighs, Peto Coast, Cory Koons – who is criminally underrated, Dean Phoenix, Marcus Iron, and Marcus Mojo – who I encountered at a bar once and then literally fled from when he said hello because I’m an idiot.

What sort of content do you generally feature on your JustFor.Fans channel?

It’s mostly solo stuff. I live in a small town, where gay guys are afraid to go to the bar, much less appear in porn. If any of you want to fly in and fuck me on video, let me know!

Because he lives in a small town, he usually does solo videos | Photo: Toyfucked87

To keep things interesting, I have a wide variety of sex toys that I use in my videos, including a fuck machine. I’ve been collecting toys since I was 17 years old. I’m into a lot of fetishes, including BDSM, leather, chastity, edging, orgasm denial, and hypnosis.

I’m a creative, imaginative person, so I try to implement something new in each of my videos.  I feel like I’m cheating my audience if I’m just putting out the same types of videos over and over. I put storylines into my videos, I role play various characters, I do voice-overs, I do parody.  I try to push myself to do something different every time I make a video, or at the very minimum improve my recording and editing quality.

Right now, I’m most proud of my Conversion series. It’s a trilogy, in which a straight guy is hypnotised into deepthroating dildos, getting locked in chastity, and is ultimately pounded by a fuck machine.

Being pounded by a fuck machine | Photo: Toyfucked87

My fans have been requesting more hypnosis-themed and pup play-themed videos. So, that’s what they’ll get.

What’s your ultimate JustFor.Fans fantasy?

My ultimate JFF fantasy is getting approximately 7 billion subscribers. That would be nice!

In terms of my ultimate sex fantasy, I’d love to be hooded, chained up, blindfolded, locked in chastity, and then spit-roasted bareback for a day or two, with a large group of men – preferably Damien Crosse, several clones of Damien Crosse, and Alistair from the Dragon Age series – pissing and cumming in me constantly.

Can we talk underwear?

I’m a cyclist, so I find boxers to be the stupidest thing ever. It’s extremely uncomfortable to have your dick just hanging off to one side, constantly brushing against the fabric of the underwear. Maybe some guys are into that, but not me.

I like support, so I much prefer briefs – especially the kind with extra room for your junk. I wear briefs most days.

I pretty much only wear a jockstrap when I’m getting fucked, or when I’m making a video.  I love the look, and it turns me on to wear a jockstrap. Does anyone know where to find those old-fashioned Bike-type jockstraps? Those are my favourites, but they’re impossible to find now.

Wearing a black jockstrap while fucking himself with a dildo | Photo: Toyfucked87

On other guys – any underwear that shows off their ass and bulge is good by me.  Do garters and suspenders count as underwear? Because garters and suspenders are fucking hot.

What are some of your goals and aspirations for the months ahead?

I’d like to grow my audience. I feel like I have a significant internet presence, but I also feel like my videos are being under-utilised – like, there are people who are into chastity and hypnosis who would love my videos but who don’t know that I exist. But, I understand that there’s no solution other than consistently making quality content.

I have many video ideas in the pipeline.  My goal is always to successfully bring those ideas into reality. Some ideas don’t pan out. For example, I wanted to do a video of myself riding a dildo on top of my bicycle. Do you have any idea how hard it is to mount a dildo on a bicycle and record with a visible angle all at the same time? Sometimes these ideas are challenges, and sometimes they’re just impossible. But, when it actually works, it’s very satisfying and makes for great content.

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