I caught up with Twitter buddy UndieLover and asked him a few personal questions.
Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?
I don’t really remember much about when I first jacked off. I would guess it was around the age of 11 or 12. I remember a lot of wanking back then.
I was at home in my bedroom. I was looking through a catalogue, at the men’s underwear section
How did you feel when you first jacked off?
I don’t recall any specific feelings. Great obviously, that post-wank high. I never felt it was bad. There was no guilt or anything like that.
Did you talk about it with anyone?
I used to have conversations with my mates — young guy banter. We’d talk lots about jerking off, and how often we did it.
Did you try any different techniques in those early years?
I used a few different techniques — standard hand-job, fucking my fist, rubbing against the bed in a fucking style. I seem to remember that fucking the space between the mattress and the bed base was a favourite
I wasn’t using any lube — I make a lot of pre-cum, so I’ve never really needed lube.
How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?
I’ve developed different ways of wanking. There’s the quick just-need-to-empty-my-balls wank. Then there’s the long, slow edging over a few hours — usually using a pair of pants I’ve swapped with a guy, sniffing, rubbing myself with them.
I know more now how to please myself in different ways.
What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?
I like to mix it up. My absolute favourite way would be at a sauna, party, or cruising ground. Long, slow-stroke wanking to attract the attention of others.
For solo wanking, my favourite method is being naked, lying on the bed. Long, slow strokes to begin with. Free hand playing with my balls. Running a finger round my ass-hole. Then building gently to faster and shorter strokes. Mixing the two. Either taking myself to the edge and halting if wanting to have a slow, drawn-out edging wank, or bringing myself to a big sticky climax.
What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?
Explore and learn about yourself. Try different methods, positions, places, states of undress. Slip a finger in your ass, rub on your balls, tweak your nipples. Try fast and furious and long and slow. Alternate. Explore and enjoy.
After all, the more you know the more you can guide sexual partners so that you get a great time.Follow @lover_undie
The Cum Dump Phenomenon
Master Jerry helps us understand it.
The continuing evolution of the sexuality of gay men is endlessly fascinating. There’s obviously enormous diversity in the attitude and outlook of gay men in terms of sex.
The reality of being a cum-dump probably has a proud history that stretches throughout time, but embracing it as a sexual identity feels like a relatively new phenomenon.
On social networks like Twitter, and also on dating apps, a large number of users are now identifying themselves as cum-dumps.
Studios like Treasure Island Media and SX Video were among the first to embrace the fetishisation of cum. But, in recent years, many more porn studios seem to have embraced the trend.
A quick search on the video sharing website Pornhub presents you with more that 300 results. The most popular video has more than 1 million views.
It left us wondering, how did it all start?
To help us understand the phenomenon, we interviewed Master Jerry, a Twitter resident expert on cum dumps.
What is a Cum Dump?
Although self-explanatory, we thought it would be a good idea to start with a definition of the term.
Cum-dump is used to describe a man that wants to have as many men as possible cumming in his mouth or asshole. Because the fetishisation of cum is the sexual force behind it, men usually don’t use condoms.
Master Jerry simplifies the term by describing a cum dump as “a guy who’s willing to take all loads – no questions asked”.
The Evolution of Cum Dump
This is a concept that probably emerged from the nihilistic bug-chaser sub-culture, where the rush from no-condom sex was fuelled by the fear of catching a life-threatening infection. Thanks to medical advances like TasP and PrEP, and the reduction in HIV transmission rates, many gay men now feel empowered to embrace the cum-dump experience and identity.
With the fear and danger out of the equation, the appeal of being a cum-dump now comes from a symbiosis between power and control.
“I love sloppy 20ths. I also love being in control”, reveals Master Jerry.
Although there is an element of control, Master Jerry’s dynamic usually doesn’t involve any BDSM kind of fetish kink, “It’s about both cum dumps and the tops having fun”.
From underground to mainstream
When you’re looking at a gang-fuck scenario, the guy in the centre of the action is the cum dump – taking multiple loads of cum in the ass.
“Cum is the best lube – bar none”
Proud of his cum dumps, Master Jerry created is own hashtag on Twitter – #MasterJerryCumDump.
People from all over the world, including some famous names in the gay adult industry, use it to tag their best ‘cum dump’ pictures.
“My cum dump stable star is MuscleDaddyBottom on BBRT. Also Xybbbottomguy on BBRT is one of my popular stable cum-dumps”.
When asked what was his ultimate cum dump fantasy, Master Jerry replies:
“I’ve pretty much lived my ultimate cum dump fantasies. But I guess that something I’d like to explore is setting up eight cum dumps side-by-side, taking all loads. I’d also like to take a couple of hot cum dumps out into the streets and whore them out to random guys in downtown alleyways.”
Find out more about Master Jerry and join his stable:Follow @MasterJerryXXX
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