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A tantric approach to BDSM

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I caught up with Michael, also known as Master Crow, to talk about sex, domination, and control.

You describe yourself as a ‘sensual dom’ — what does that mean in the context of the BDSM world?

A sensual Dom is one who uses the act of domination and control in a sensual way rather than painful way. Most Doms want to bring pain to the sub as a way to assert dominance.

I use pleasure and desire along with some mild pain — to vary the sensations and keep the attention — to get them into sub-space. I don’t consider myself a sadist, so giving pain as a vehicle for me to get pleasure is not something I do.

I don’t consider myself a sadist, so giving pain as a vehicle for me to get pleasure is not something I do.

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How do you bring a Tantric approach to BDSM?

Tantra is about drawing the pleasure out and focusing on the sensations along the way to whatever the destination — orgasm, pleasure, or release. By using the principles of Tantra, I bring in Kink and BDSM experiences to ratchet up the sensations and the intensity of the session. Tantra is already about the sensations and their exploration. By bringing in BDSM-based sensations I’m also able to help the client get out of their head, into sub-space, or into a heavy endorphin flow.

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Tantra teaches that ‘everything is an experiment’ so, for example, I might set up an experiment in staying conscious and present, such as — “I will flog you for 15 minutes and I want you to yell, scream, breathe, or whatever, into each strike by staying present, alert and aware.” Then at the end of the 15 minutes we might talk about what happened, and how that felt. It’s all about teaching them to be with the sensations and explore them and the experience rather than just being physically present but out of your body.

You advertise as having a ‘fully equipped dungeon’ — what does a BDSM dungeon need in order to be considered fully equipped?

To be “fully equipped” a space would need connection points for bondage and suspension, gear for the play — floggers, whips, cock and ball toys, rope, cuffs, and plenty of room. There’s always room for more things above those, but a minimum of tools available that someone could show up empty-handed and have everything they need for a full-on BDSM experience.

I want everyone who comes to me for pro-work, or comes in to rent my space for fun, to be able to explore all they want, and for me to have all the tools that might be needed for that exploration. The only thing I can’t equip the dungeon with is knowledge and skill, but that’s what I bring to the space and client sessions.

What sort of clients are generally looking for your services?

I have a wide range of male clients. Generally speaking, those around my age — 10–15 years above and below — tend to be drawn to me. The majority of the clients I get are tops or other Doms who want to experience what they give. The straight guys that I work on almost always say — “I’m just so tired of making decisions and being in charge.” The gay guys tend more towards — “I want to know what the things I’m doing feel like, and learn new skills.”

Master Crow ready to flog one of his clients | Photo: supplied

Since I’m not a sadistic Dom, my clients tend to be more of the explorer type than hard-core masochists. I advertise as a Sensual Dom, and so I attract those looking for experiences and education rather than beatings.

What does a typical session with you generally involve?

The session begins way before we actually meet. Once the client has made the decision to work with me and we’ve set a date and time for the session, then I send them several pieces of documentation for them to begin telling me about them and about their desires. The desires and boundaries they hold are communicated via a checklist of all the activities that I’m open to doing. I have a system where they can tell me which of those things they definitely want to include, which they definitely want to exclude, and those which are new to them but they want to explore. As they complete that information, we have any discussion necessary on it so that we both have a clear understanding of their desires and boundaries.

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When they show up, I spend the first part of the session chatting with them about how they’re feeling in the moment. We talk about their info, their desires, my general plan, and answer any last-minute questions.

Once we have all of that out of the way and the physical contact begins, then I use all the info that I’ve gathered and where they are in the moment, and I create an experience for them from that. The key point here is that I then decide what things are done, for how long, and at what intensity. I do that based upon their info and not a mapped-out plan.

Part of the fun — for both of us — is not knowing exactly where things will go. They know what things they’ve said “include” to, and so my job is to surprise them with those choices in a manner that makes sense for the session. Before we start the session, I already have an idea of various “plot points” that I want to somehow work us into as we create their experience or story. Then I just stay with the experience and move things in that direction from point to point. It keeps them guessing and me attentive, and that’s a win for us both.

Some of Master Crow’s characters | Photo: supplied

I love the sound of the Warrior Challenge game that you created for a client — how did that work?

As a kid, I was always the one making up games for my playmates and I. I’ve discovered that I can use those same skills for making up scenes based upon the desires and limitations of the client. The Warrior Challenge client is a guy that I’ve seen frequently over the years. He was able to afford for me to pull in five of my buddies to do this group scene with me. I knew that he likes to be pushed, to experience intense things, that he gets into military play, and loves surprises.

I came up with what I called the Warrior Challenge so that I could get the client and my buddies to push each other as both tops and bottoms. They came to the facility as specially selected field agents ready for training upgrades. I told them that they would be learning to be secret military interrogators and learning to withstand punishing interrogations at the same time by challenging each other to give and take more intense experiences. I decided to add in some luck of the draw to bring in the spontaneity so each person drew two names from a hat to determine who would be their tormentors (lead and assistant). I also knew that I had to manage what was done to each person because I was the only one who had knowledge of what each of them was into, enjoyed, and their boundaries.

While the remaining three guys got the ‘hostage’ restrained in some way for the experience, I would have a quick consultation with the ‘captors’ about what to do with that person and how hard to go. Once things started, the three remaining guys surrounded and supported and encouraged them to go harder and take more. I stayed in the scene as an in-the-moment coach so that I could modulate the experience and keep everyone comfortable and safe.

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By the end, everyone was exhausted, high on endorphins, blissed-out, and soaking wet with sweat. It was three hot hours of amazing experience after experience after experience, with everyone getting some time in every role. When my buddies and I see each other, that one is now the scene we reference as the one to beat.

Is role-play a big part of your work?

It’s not as big a part of my practice as I might like, but I get to do a scene about two or three times a month. I find role-play to be incredibly fun. When I was first asked for a role-play scene, like most everyone else I just thought — “I’ll feel silly and I won’t know what to say.” But, as a professional, I knew that I just needed to let those feelings go and go for it. I had a blast! Since then I’ve really taken the time to add all sorts of outfits and props for characters, so that I can be ready for pretty much any scene that comes along.

I enjoy role-play a great deal because once you decide that you’re another character, then you can do and say things that you might not do or say because you’re that character and not yourself. The thing is that once you get with the flow of it, it just comes naturally — with a well-placed statement or action, it can go in unexpected and exciting directions. The easy part is that while you may not know what to say when starting, you quickly learn that you don’t need to know. Staying present with the experience and just pretending you are that person is freeing and empowering. I never rely on a script. That’s too static for dynamic experiences like this.

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Role-play can also be very healing because it allows us to re-engage situations which may have been challenging in the past or that didn’t end the way we might have liked or needed. In this space, with a safe distance from the original experience, we can choose a more desirable outcome that leaves the person feeling empowered by the experience rather than a victim of it. That positive imprint on the mind can help push out the negative experiences from the past when done with conscious work. The key is that it’s all play, so just have fun with it.

What are some of the challenges of being a sex-worker in the US at the moment?

Sex work in the US is in an awkward and uncomfortable place right now. We have a President claiming to be a Christian to gain the support of the white religious right, and so he’s pumping up the issues that get his base fired up. Abortion, patriotism, immigrants, gays, and sex workers are all on their hit list. Unfortunately, it’s all being forced upon America under the guise of ‘eliminating human trafficking’ but the legislation does nothing to reduce or prevent trafficking. It’s just being used to bully websites that advertise for erotic workers.

Sex workers know that there are those who are forced into the sex trade and we all oppose that. Those doing this work should be doing it by choice, and so we want that choice to be left open but the trafficking shut down — finding what we can accept to get what we want is the key. Members of the community are working on every front to decriminalise sex work and legalise it beyond that.

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The unfortunate side of it is that it seems to be impacting our clients as well. Many of us are noticing that we’re slower this year than in most years past, and this is our busy season of summer. Our fear is that clients will want to avoid being caught up in any ugly bust, so they’re laying low to avoid that. It’s our job to let them know that the police are really targeting street workers who are being victimised by their pimps and clients. They aren’t really going for those of us on the high end, where we work by choice and clients choose to make these interactions. Adults making adult decisions that harm no one should not be illegal.

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What are some of your goals and ambitions for the remainder of 2018?

After working in the industry for over 13 years, and reaching a golden age of 55, I’m starting to transition from being a practitioner to being a space provider. I created my studio, The Crow’s Nest Escape, for me but with the intent to be able to rent it to other practitioners and couples. I enjoy the process involved in all of that, and getting to keep making the space more and more fun and functional. I’ve found that creating the studio has been very enjoyable for me and allows me to express my creativity in a productive way. I hope to soon begin creating a second Crow’s Nest Escape locally or in another city. I also hope to do a bit of travelling to cities around the States, offering fun scenes and spreading the love.

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Time to play with Toyfucked87

“I’m a creative, imaginative person, so I try to implement something new in each of my videos.”

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I caught up with Toyfucked87 to talk about underwear, fantasies, and life on JustFor.Fans.

What led you to start exploring a career in porn?

I originally started recording myself in 2016, just because it turned me on. Then I went on to various gay roulette cam sites. Whereas most guys would just be jacking off on the roulette sites with only their dick showing, I liked to shock people by being fully decked out in leather gear, or by fucking myself with a dildo with my face showing.

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Toyfucked87 showing one of his dildos | Photo: Toyfucked87

Some of the cam sites let you see how many viewers you have compared to other people. I would reliably get to number one on those sites, just by doing the stuff I liked to do – that’s when I started to realise that maybe I had something unique to offer.

Who are some of your porn heroes or inspirations?

I consider directors to be the heart of any production. You can have the hottest guys imaginable in your video, but if there’s no direction or passion or hook, it often just falls flat. Bruce Cam is probably my favourite porn director of all time. The Fallen Angel series is a masterpiece.

Joe Gage is another one.  Yes, I’m a big Titan guy – although, in my opinion, their recent productions are lazy, uninspired, and barely there. If you haven’t seen Mens Room: Bakersfield Station then you need to stop reading this and go do that.

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Chi Chi LaRue is another one. I prefer his older movies – Hazed will always be one of my go-tos.

As for porn stars that really get me going, Damien Crosse is my pig-idol, Dred Scott, Brock Masters, Spencer Whitman – particularly his thighs, Peto Coast, Cory Koons – who is criminally underrated, Dean Phoenix, Marcus Iron, and Marcus Mojo – who I encountered at a bar once and then literally fled from when he said hello because I’m an idiot.

What sort of content do you generally feature on your JustFor.Fans channel?

It’s mostly solo stuff. I live in a small town, where gay guys are afraid to go to the bar, much less appear in porn. If any of you want to fly in and fuck me on video, let me know!

Because he lives in a small town, he usually does solo videos | Photo: Toyfucked87

To keep things interesting, I have a wide variety of sex toys that I use in my videos, including a fuck machine. I’ve been collecting toys since I was 17 years old. I’m into a lot of fetishes, including BDSM, leather, chastity, edging, orgasm denial, and hypnosis.

I’m a creative, imaginative person, so I try to implement something new in each of my videos.  I feel like I’m cheating my audience if I’m just putting out the same types of videos over and over. I put storylines into my videos, I role play various characters, I do voice-overs, I do parody.  I try to push myself to do something different every time I make a video, or at the very minimum improve my recording and editing quality.

Right now, I’m most proud of my Conversion series. It’s a trilogy, in which a straight guy is hypnotised into deepthroating dildos, getting locked in chastity, and is ultimately pounded by a fuck machine.

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Being pounded by a fuck machine | Photo: Toyfucked87

My fans have been requesting more hypnosis-themed and pup play-themed videos. So, that’s what they’ll get.

What’s your ultimate JustFor.Fans fantasy?

My ultimate JFF fantasy is getting approximately 7 billion subscribers. That would be nice!

In terms of my ultimate sex fantasy, I’d love to be hooded, chained up, blindfolded, locked in chastity, and then spit-roasted bareback for a day or two, with a large group of men – preferably Damien Crosse, several clones of Damien Crosse, and Alistair from the Dragon Age series – pissing and cumming in me constantly.

Can we talk underwear?

I’m a cyclist, so I find boxers to be the stupidest thing ever. It’s extremely uncomfortable to have your dick just hanging off to one side, constantly brushing against the fabric of the underwear. Maybe some guys are into that, but not me.

I like support, so I much prefer briefs – especially the kind with extra room for your junk. I wear briefs most days.

I pretty much only wear a jockstrap when I’m getting fucked, or when I’m making a video.  I love the look, and it turns me on to wear a jockstrap. Does anyone know where to find those old-fashioned Bike-type jockstraps? Those are my favourites, but they’re impossible to find now.

Wearing a black jockstrap while fucking himself with a dildo | Photo: Toyfucked87

On other guys – any underwear that shows off their ass and bulge is good by me.  Do garters and suspenders count as underwear? Because garters and suspenders are fucking hot.

What are some of your goals and aspirations for the months ahead?

I’d like to grow my audience. I feel like I have a significant internet presence, but I also feel like my videos are being under-utilised – like, there are people who are into chastity and hypnosis who would love my videos but who don’t know that I exist. But, I understand that there’s no solution other than consistently making quality content.

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I have many video ideas in the pipeline.  My goal is always to successfully bring those ideas into reality. Some ideas don’t pan out. For example, I wanted to do a video of myself riding a dildo on top of my bicycle. Do you have any idea how hard it is to mount a dildo on a bicycle and record with a visible angle all at the same time? Sometimes these ideas are challenges, and sometimes they’re just impossible. But, when it actually works, it’s very satisfying and makes for great content.

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