I caught up with Kan Rojas to talk Pride, parties, and Pup-play.
When did you start to discover and explore your love of fetish and kink?
When I was 23 years old. I was having a lot of sex, but I started to feel that the simple or vanilla sex didn’t really satisfying me — I needed something more, I needed something different. One day, a boy opened my eyes to a totally different world. Since then, I haven’t stopped discovering and learning, and every time I like it more!
What led you to start exploring Pup-play?
About one year ago, I was at Gay Pride in Maspalomas. I was with my friends in the parade, having fun, dancing, and enjoying the music. Just ahead of us passed a group of six boys — four of them had ‘puppy’ masks on. There was something about it, it seemed so different and exciting — literally, I was instantly hard.
One of the Pups approached me and said that he’d see me afterwards. We met up, went back to his apartment, and we fucked like animals.
I’m a sexually dominant person, but at the same time I’m very affectionate and playful. Pup-play mixes all of that together at the same time — the control and submission is with respect and affection. There’s something about it that drives me crazy.
Would you describe yourself as an exhibitionist?
Honestly yes — I love it. I love it when people watch me, and it excites me a lot to know that people feel pleasure when they’re watching me, that they’re fantasising about doing things with me.
Do you have any hints or tips on how to navigate a sex club?
When I’m in the club I just go with my friends to enjoy and see what happens. I think the best advice is to just enjoy the company — when others see that you’re having a good time, they’ll want to have a good time with you.
What are some of the upcoming parties that you’re looking forward to?
I’m looking forward to being with my friends again at Manchester Pride. Then in October it’s Fetish Week in Maspalomas — Hard On will be the best party of the entire week, and I’ll be there with all my friends.
Can we talk underwear?
In my day-to-day I wear slips or jockstraps. When I go to the gym I prefer to wear jockstraps or just go commando — I like the guys to see me showing off my cock while I’m working out. On other guys, I’m very excited by jockstraps. I always like a good ass with a good jockstrap — if you’re down the street and you feel like playing a bit, it’s easier with a jockstrap.
What are some of your goals and ambitions for the remainder of 2018?
I have many ambitions, but everything has its moment and everything has to be step-by-step. I want to travel, to film more movies, to be more recognised, and to do more photo-shoots. I’d like to finish 2018 and let people know who I am, what I do, and how I really feel.
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Can we talk underwear?
Junior has over 800 in his underwear drawer. Is that a record?
I caught up with Twitter-buddy Junior from Belgium to talk about his addiction to underwear.
When did you first become interested in men’s underwear?
I think it was because my mum made me wear those old-looking classic white briefs, while the other kids in school were wearing more colourful briefs and boxers — I wanted to wear that too.
One day, I was about 10, my mother and I went shopping for new clothes. I saw these cool white briefs that had a wide rainbow coloured waistband. I got a few of them and I loved them, and didn’t want to wear anything else anymore. I think that’s when my interest in underwear started.
When did you first realise that you had a sexual connection with men’s underwear?
A few years after I got those rainbow waistband briefs, when I was about 15, I could buy my own clothes. The underwear section in the store was my favourite place to be. I got hard seeing all those lovely, beautiful and cool undies. I bought a lot.
The boys in school became jealous because they wore baggy boxers or boxer briefs while I wore trunks and hipsters. I loved wearing other boys’ undies when they left them in the changing rooms.
How have you explored that sexual connection or fetish over the years?
Underwear is a big part of my life. When I see a guy bend over, I always try to see what he’s wearing.
One thing is for sure — I like clean, neat, new underwear. I don’t mind cum stains, but my fetish stops when they’re too smelly or dirty, or a really old pair.
Why is Twitter a good way to share your interest in underwear?
On Twitter you can share photos that are seen as ‘inappropriate’ for other platforms. My Instagram account was deleted for posting a photo of an underwear bulge.
It’s also a good way to interaction with other users.
How do you connect with other guys with a sexual interest in men’s underwear?
Twitter, briefsmania.com, and Grindr are all good places to connect with other guys who are into underwear.
I like to go to underwear parties, or date men who have the same interest.
Is there a level of exhibitionism with your underwear fetish?
I guess so. When I’m on the beach, I don’t mind wearing my undies to lay down my towel — I walk around a bit before putting on my swim-briefs. Same at the gym, I’m the one walking, chatting, and talking the longest in my underwear in the locker room. I don’t mind wearing thongs or jockstraps in the locker room, which is unusual in Belgium. I also like to show off my underwear waistband above my jeans.
Do your friends or family know about your passion for underwear?
I think most of my friends and family know. I’m the one always shopping for special underwear. When they want to give me something for my birthday or Christmas, they mostly give me gift cards to buy underwear.
How many pairs of underwear do you own?
I think I have about 800 pairs. But around 600 I keep in my drawers — the others are in my archive boxes. I have about 200 trunks and boxer briefs, 200 briefs, 100 jockstraps, 50 thongs, and 50 novelty ones.
Which are your favourite brands of underwear?
I have a lot of favourite brands. In the past it used to be HOM, Aussiebum, ES Collection, Calvin Klein and XTG. Now I like Garcon Model, Andrew Christian, Pistol Pete, Marco Marco, Addicted, and Alexander Cobb.
Which styles of underwear do you prefer?
I love to wear all styles — even baggy boxers. But if I have to order them it would be tanga briefs, briefs, boxer briefs, jockstraps, then thongs.
What are some of the next steps in exploring your fetish?
Meeting new men who have the same passion for underwear as I do. I can talk and chat with guys on Twitter and other websites, but I’d like to get in touch with more guys in Belgium who have the same interest as me. Perhaps one day I’ll host my own underwear parties.
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