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I caught up with Twitter buddy RfH and asked him a few personal questions.

Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?

I was 12, I think. I was at home — I jacked-off after watching a film.

How did you feel when you first jacked off?


Did you talk about it with anyone?

No. The first time I talked about it with anyone was when I was having sex with a friend a few years later — we were about 15.

Did you try any different techniques in those early years?

No. I used some type of lube a couple of times, but mostly it was the same. Things haven’t really changed over the years.

What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?

I have a wank mix of porn that I use.

What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?

Enjoy it. Try different places. But mainly just enjoy it.

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Word of the Day: Chacal

Travelling to Mexico City? Add this to your vocabulary.



Photo by Nick Karvounis on Unsplash
Photo by Nick Karvounis on Unsplash

Chacal is a term used in Mexico City — it describes a masculine guy who fucks other guys. A rough top.

The Urban Dictionary helpfully shows how to use the term Chacal in a sentence: “Total bottoms love chacales…”

Let’s put to one side for the moment the ridiculous labelling as anyone as a ‘total bottom’ — just because a guy enjoys a bit of anal play doesn’t define his identity — but you get the idea.

In some ways, Chacal is the Mexican version of Masc4Masc — but Latino culture has a complicated obsession with all things macho. In places like Mexico City, your identity as a man, your masculinity, is defined by how you project a macho image to the world. Being gay isn’t easily reconciled with being macho. The chacales are trying to have it both ways — projecting an uber-macho image to the world, and totally getting off on having sex with guys.

In the interests of cross-cultural investigative research, here’s some examples of guys who seem to me to be channelling a bit of the Chacal vibe.

Antonio Biaggi

Rogan Richards

Martin Mazza

Hector de Silva

Emiliano Boscatto

Rafael Alencar

Chacal. It’s our word of the day.

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