I caught up with Twitter buddy David Cookson and asked him a few personal questions.
Can you remember the first time you jacked-off?
My first wank was at the age of 14. I was at home, in my bedroom, using a straight porn mag.
A friend of my brother stopped over once, and he got a porn mag out from under our elder brother’s bed and wanked in front of us. When he came, he did it in his hand and showed us what cum looked like. I really fancied him as well, so I wanted to try — I waited until I got time alone.
How did you feel when you first jacked off?
I was nervous in case anyone walked in, but I did it anyway. I remember when I spurted it seemed to hurt a little, and I remember the smell.
Did you talk about it with anyone?
I didn’t tell anyone, but I did start baby-sitting for a man in the flat below us. When his kids were fast asleep in bed, I’d get his porn mags out and have a wank. He was ex-army and a truck driver, and was always talking about sex.
One day I asked him what wanking was , but only because I wanted to see his cock. He said that in the army they had wank competitions to see who could cum first. He told me that if I had a wank, to make sure I didn’t shoot over the carpet.
Did you try any different techniques in those early years?
I just wanked to porn, or with horny thoughts of my brother’s friend.
A few years later I tried to trick him into having sex with a woman with me, but only because I wanted him.
How has your jack-off style evolved over the years?
Not much, but the key thing is playing with my nipples while I’m wanking. I also like wanking in front of others.
What’s your preferred way to jack-off currently?
Sometimes I can wank and edge myself several times a day and not cum at all, and then suddenly something triggers it a few days later or later the same day and then I just go for it. I tend to shoot a lot when it’s like that. When I was younger I would wank and cum several times a day, and also at work.
What jack-off hints or tips would you give a young guy just starting to explore his sexuality?
Just go for it, but clearly be careful if it’s at home — choose your timing well. Don’t do it too often — I find it best if I edge for a while and save my cum for another day, as it gets me hornier each time.
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I caught up with Chris Davis from TAKE TWO to discuss how a dietary supplement can play an important role in anal sex.
What led you to create the TAKE TWO dietary supplement?
We saw an opportunity to deliver the absolute highest quality of dietary fibre blends to a demanding market, while offering a premium alternative with high-end, discreet packaging that really sets us apart from other brands.
My understanding is that there are similar types of fibre supplement products on the market, but I haven’t seen anyone else market them specifically to men as an aid to anal sex. Why did you decide to focus on that market?
Pure for Men is the clear market leader and actually does speak to clean anal sex, however, we’ve found what is considered to be a more effective formula that delivers even better results.
We decided to make a splash in the market after early customer reviews raved about just how much of a difference TAKE TWO made to their digestive health and confidence in the bedroom. We also found that a lot of customers prefer discreet packaging and bottle labels, which matches the high-end look and feel of TAKE TWO.
Is TAKE TWO an alternative to douching or just an additional option to help guys be clean and confident?
We like the idea of have additional tools in the shed for every occasion! TAKE TWO is not meant to completely eliminate the need for general maintenance and hygiene, but we have found that many of our customers spend 70 percent less time ‘getting ready’ while some users have forgone traditional preparation steps, altogether. We’re such strong believers in the above claims that we stand by these promised results with a money-back guarantee.
The edition that you’ve created in partnership with the Tom of Finland Foundation looks great — why was the imagery of Tom of Finland a good fit for TAKE TWO?
It’s no secret that here in the office, we love the rich, leather-bound imagery rooted in Tom of Finland’s unique catalogue of art. It was an obvious match to the leather-like look and feel of our standard TAKE TWO bottle design, and not at all hard to imagine how amazing the Tom of Finland art would look if properly featured on the TAKE TWO product.
We worked closely with the Tom of Finland Foundation to identify some of the most iconic pieces, and coupled them with the jaw-dropping metallic backing on each panel to give that one-of-a-kind finish. After the first bottle was completed, we knew it was a winning bet.
Customers have fallen in love with the result, and we’re already getting daily requests for new favourite pieces of Tom of Finland artwork to be featured next.
How do you market your product?
We rely heavily on word-of-mouth, but have run a few very successful campaigns on social networks and dating apps like Scruff and Hornet. We’ve also partnered with doctors serving the LGBTQ community around the US who see the immense value in supporting fibre-rich diets via TAKE TWO’s premium blend of soluble and insoluble fibres. You’ll likely see TAKE TWO popping up in various radio, television and social media campaigns featuring respected online personalities that have made the switch to better fibre.
I was interested to see in your Q&As that you specifically talk about the product’s capability with PrEP — was that a question that you were receiving from customers or did you just want to proactively address any potential concerns that might be out there?
Although risks are determined to be relatively low when it comes to dietary fibre supplements and medications like PrEP, we wanted to be 100 percent certain that best-practices are being followed to eliminate any doubts.
If I was a young guy, just starting to explore my sexuality, what hints or tips would you give to make anal sex as enjoyable as possible?
- Get to know yourself and your body inside and out. This includes everything from exploring tools like lubricant and practising with safe objects and toys to get a feel for what works for you.
- Be sure you are comfortable with and trust your sexual partners before diving in.
- Remain sex-positive and remember that sex is a long journey — an experience that is meant to be enjoyable.
- Take your time and communicate freely before, during, and after playtime.
- Play safe!
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