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We surveyed 120 gay men and asked them some personal questions about their sexual fantasies.

Here’s what we found out.

Is a Daddy/Son role-play something that fuels your fantasies?

  • Yes: 74%
  • No: 18%
  • Unsure: 8%

“Age differences have always intrigued me. In my 20s, I much preferred men who were 10 or 20 years older than me. Since my 40s, I’ve preferred men in their 20s, though I can be attracted to men closer to my own age, too.” — anonymous survey respondent

“It’s hot. There’s something about the bond between Dad and son that many of us didn’t have.” — anonymous survey respondent

“When I was in my teens, I used to like older guys. Now I’m older, and teenagers calling me Daddy turns me on.” — anonymous survey respondent

“I enjoy fantasising about forbidden situations.” — anonymous survey respondent

“I’m young, and like the idea of an older man fucking me. Also, I like to see an older guy teaching a younger guy what to do.” — anonymous survey respondent

“When I was a teen, I loved it when older men took me in hand to train me up in the joys of sex. Now, as an older man, I enjoy training up young men.” — anonymous survey respondent

Do you ever identify as a Daddy in your sexual encounters?

  • Yes: 45%
  • No — I’m too young: 19%
  • No — It’s not an identity that I connect with: 30%
  • Unsure: 6%

Do you ever identify as a Son in your sexual encounters?

  • Yes: 48%
  • No — I’m too old: 26%
  • No — It’s not an identity that I connect with: 22%
  • Unsure: 4%

Why do you think a Daddy/Son role-play appeals to you?

  • It doesn’t appeal to me: 15%
  • I had a good relationship with my father: 2%
  • I had a difficult relationship with my father: 9%
  • I enjoy the inter-generational power dynamic: 36%
  • I don’t know, it just turns me on: 19%
  • Other: 19%

Responses marked as Other could generally be categorised as either “It just turns me on” or “power dynamic.”

What does survey this tell us?

  • The Daddy/Son role-play fantasy is a fairly common fantasy for gay men.
  • There is a proportion of gay men that don’t in any way identify with the Daddy/Son role-play fantasy.
  • Gay men often adapt the fantasy as they age— you may have identified as a ‘son’ when younger, but you can embrace the role of ‘daddy’ as you get older.
  • The inter-generational power dynamic is the key driver of this fantasy for most gay men.

Survey methodology

  • We created a survey on MailChimp and ran it for 14 days in September 2018.
  • We sought volunteers to complete the survey through Twitter and LinkedIn, targeting gay men.
  • No incentives were offered to respondents to complete the survey.
  • 120 respondents completed the survey.
  • The results were manually analysed.

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Joel Someone is living his gay porn fantasy



Photo by Tom @Cooltompix
Photo by Tom @Cooltompix

I caught up with Joel Someone to talk about porn, sex, and underwear.

What led you to start exploring a career in porn?

It was my dream to shoot with Treasure Island Media — something about the fearlessness of their exploits inspired me at a young age. Gay sex meant fear to me, as long as I could remember.

The longer I waited to seek out my sexual identity, people were pushing me away from my passions to things that were more stable. I was attempting to live a hetero-normative life, against my own inner desires.

Honestly, porn saved my life. I wasn’t happy with my direction and career, I love porn — it was a natural transition.

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Would you describe yourself as an exhibitionist?

The act of creating porn is exhibition, so I would say — Yes, absolutely. In my own personal life, I enjoy sexuality that’s honest and playful. It’s hard for me to put titles on what I find to be exhibitionism.

I’m more an exhibitionist with my speech — I love talking explicitly with people who are truthful about their desires.

Photo by Benjamin Fredrickson @benjaminfredrickson_studio

Who are some of your porn heroes or inspirations?

  • Rocco Steele was someone I admired from a very young age. His appearance inspired me to start working on my fitness.
  • Ron Jeremy taught me that you can be the nicest, kindest, most professional man, and you can build a career out of your great interpersonal skills. Having a large penis obviously helps.
  • Cutler X — because he’s a sweet and lovely person, but can still fuck like a demon. He was never corrupted by a persona.
  • Armond Rizzo was the first time I was deeply attracted to someone who was very boyish — up until that moment I chased ‘daddy’ type guys. He made me want to become more of a dom-dad.
  • Buck Angel altered my perception of what masculinity was. Seeing him made me search deep for what my inner gender was, which made me appreciate the masculinity of bottoming or being a vessel for another man.
  • Marco Napoli is the man I’m seeing, and he really is inspiring me. To see the dedication of leaving the past behind and starting fresh. He’s on this journey with me, and it’s nice to have someone to share this roller-coaster with.
Photo by Theo Sickels @champagneginger

What’s your ultimate porn fantasy?

My greatest fantasy is having sex with twins. During different parts of my life, this fantasy kept reoccurring. Just recently, I was able to fulfil my fantasy with the Morgan brothers. I was really aroused by the silent connection the two had with one another while they were being brutalised by 17 men — the symmetry of their bodies as each boy was placed in a pose and then fucked.

They were very quiet during this event, you could see the concentration on their faces. I thought it would be odd to see two brothers being fucked at the same time, but after the experience I was amazed to see the very cool close bond they had with each other.

Photo by Marco Napoli @marconapolinyc

Can we talk underwear?

I love bikini-cut with a pouch, or jockstraps — always in black. I love anything that cups my balls and lifts my cock up.

At the gym, I usually have gym shorts with a lining already sewn in.

On other men I like to see fresh clean underwear. Mine occasionally are musky from my balls. I like having a boy telling me that mine need to be changed.

Photo by Tom @Cooltompix

What are some of your goals and objectives for the months ahead?

I’ve really enjoyed the partnerships I’ve made with several studios. I’m happy to have a good relationship with them and to be trusted to work with talented performers. I want to develop more partnerships with studios and performers.

I enjoy working inside and outside the porn industry. I love acting and creating — this platform has offered me the ability to do both. My favourite activity is discovering and working with talent on Instagram.

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